sugery goodness

Tuesday, October 30, 2007 No comments

The best of this week's blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #104? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you're all set.

This Week's Picks


"Feel the electricity from my fingers as I peel the damp cotton of your panties away from your sex, as I ease them to one side."

The Man From Del Monte Says...Yes, Yes, Oh God! YESSS!

"She let her lips and tongue explore me all over."

Traveling the road, Sharing a load, Side by side

"I guess this is not very sexy, my ranting about politics while playing with your cock."

Mr. Sugasm Himself

The US Constitution Erotic Coloring Book

Editor's Choice

Dinner Date: Part 1

See also: Fleshbot's Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Sex Poetry

It's about priorities...
Orgasm - O - Vision

Erotic Writing and Experiences

Fantasy Football
In Need - Original Illustrated Erotica
Indian Summer
New Underpants
The Pied Piper
Touch Me Babe
A walk in the Woods

Sex & Politics

Love Your Body
Abstinence Only Sex Ed On the Ropes?

NSFW Pics & Videos

Happy HNT!
HNT the Menstrual Edition
I Feel Myself
Sinful Invitation
Sugar and Spice

Sex News & Reviews

2257 No More? Let the amateur porn flow!
Asian Woman Bound, Tickled and Forced To Cum
DamNation w/ The Reverend Bob Levy
NEW Super Sexy Designs!
Sex Toy Review : Under the Bed Restraints
Welcome to "Birds are smart" by Penny

BDSM & Fetish

Anal Training Part 2 -The Entering
Anniversary Present: A Fantasy
Cyber or real!?
Don't stop until I stop you
Face Slapping II
Hand Signals
L is for Look it Up
The Petting Zoo: Sex Camp, Day Two
Princess or Pervert?
Stiletto Mistress

Sex Work

Reality Check: Getting Sick

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

The Disclosure Dilemma
HNT - Half Naked Thighs
I Want to Fuck All of My Friends
A Prelude to an Eclectic Slut
Some Things Are Not Possible
Why was the sex so good?
Why We Aren't Really Swingers (part 1)


coming your way soon

Monday, October 22, 2007 No comments
New smut is coming soon, i'm just debating which letter to unleash next. One would be just terrific to lead into the others but it might not be as smut heavy as it could be otherwise lol. Okay i'm running away now, entertain yourself with the quiz for now

Do you have an inclination for BDSM?
created with
You scored as Submission

It feels good to serve. A lack of control in the bedroom can be fun and relaxing. Being with a dominate person wouldn't be a bad idea.





Exhibitionism and Voyeurism










Vanilla Sex







you got served?

Saturday, October 13, 2007 2 comments
i write in bursts so y'all will have to forgive me. i was talking to a friend, fellow sub, about well being a submissive. when i entered the lifestyle i was labeled a textbook sub by the former Dom. one of those folks that in most aspects of their lives were fully capable of supporting themselves and managing their day to day lives but who was not at peace in their relationships unless they were relinquishing that day to day decision making to someone else. i disagreed with the last bit to a degree. i mean it would be nice to be able to stay locked up in the basement but sista does have a job and we have bills to pay. but i do agree with his point that i am fully capable of just doing me. i did it quite well in the 29 years it took for me to run into the person that made those secret desires not so strange anymore.

the power differential is a blissful thing with the right person and i am glad that i have found Him now despite this elongated separation. however i think that my textbook-i-ness is what also makes me able to serve Him better. i mean really how can you serve or take care of someone else when you can't take care of your own basic needs? and yes i choose to take care of Him which makes me somewhat different from a slave in that regard but my point is the same no matter your label. if you are incapable of standing on your own two feet how can you function when your sub gets sick, or your Dom is too tired or emotionally drained to tend to your mood swings, or whatever the scenario might be? an independent sub sounds like an oxymoron to some i know but He doesn't want me because i NEED Him to guide me, He wants me because i know how to handle my life but i WANT Him to be my guide in this life. He appreciates that i have stood like a strong little soldier and taken care of what needed to be done while He's gone.

we all have to come to these potential relationships with more than eagerness. it takes a lot of compromise and understanding and no small bit of self-direction to maintain what we build. we all know their are times when the D/s has to take a backseat to life and if you aren't built for life then the D/s will likely self-destruct. make sure that you are in order before you try to serve someone else or be served by anyone else. it's not fair to the party in question to not be at your best and truthfully i hate seeing two folks drift away from each other because they weren't solid enough in who they are to know they could seek comfort from the person who isn't supplying every single bit of their happiness but who would be there for us if we asked. just something to ponder on i guess. i surely plan on giving Him all of me but that means all of the good, the bad, the strong, the weak and everything in between and let Him mold that without looking at Him like my sole source of what is good in the world. i can serve Him with a smile because i can serve myself the same way.


nothing to say, too much on the brain

Sunday, October 07, 2007 No comments
have you ever had one of those moments? there is so much running around in my brain but absolutely none of it is useful in the grand scheme of things. what i want i really cannot have but i don't want to dwell on that or make the object of my want feel bad about not being available. He would be here tormenting me, making me play nice with my mother and planning a slightly less elaborate than He might originally have planned, when and if planning took place at all, wedding so that by all appearances we were just another perfectly happy upwardly mobile couple. i do like the appearances don't get me wrong, but it would be very nice to be able to take in a pillow to plop down on at work and not really explain my ass is steamy red and uncomfortable to plop down on without extra padding. i mean i could, i don't share everything with the folks at work but it would be nicer to not even have to broach the subject. that your kink, as long as it wasn't harming anyone else, could be just another basic old relationship.

i'm not desperate for a spanking at the moment. i could really go for one but the reality of life means the great lord spanko is not available so i will just enjoy sitting on my tushy while i can. i daydreamed for a moment on friday that He would surprise me at the car a la one of my smutty stories from a while back. yeah no such surprise lol but it was nice to daydream. i'm going to grab a bite to eat and read so i can return this book to the library. if anything becomes coherent enough to scribble out here i'll be back. if not enjoy your sunday.


sugasm 99

Tuesday, October 02, 2007 No comments

The best of this week's blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #100? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you're all set.

This Week's Picks

Don't think...

"As you read this, you reach for your cock and stroke it slowly, in anticipation of our eventual meeting."

I'll be out in 2 mins, I'm just brushing my teeth...

"One centimetre at a time, he slid oh so slowly into me and then retreated out again."

We all have Secrets

"I'll give you a little reminder - it was when he and his wife were making me cum so hard that I blacked out."

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Iris Bahr's Festive World

Editor's Choice

Letter to a Lover

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Erotic Writing and Experiences

Better than Cocktails
The Birthday Box
Burlesque: Getting Ready
I assigned Kis Lee the word 'resentment'
In the city lights
A Much Needed Climax

Sexual Poetry

Symplexity Presents: A Wild Ride

BDSM & Fetish

Arrival: Sex Camp, Day One
Boy Toy
Catalina loves Guest Cock
Counting the Days
M is for Manhandled
Movie, tit whipping, and anal sex
No Big Deal...Or Not?

Sex News & Reviews

Happy 2nd Blogiversary to Always Aroused Girl!
Fleshlight Review
A Nawty Mouz's Sexy Library of Kinky Linkies!
Violet Wands

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

The 100 Unsexiest Men Of 2007
I think we broke my dick...
Not everything has a pre-emptive strike...
Now what?
Radical Fucking Honesty

Sex Work

Sex Work And Religion: The Pagan And The Jew

NSFW Pics & Videos

Antea & Christina (errotica archives)
Death or an invitation?
Friends, Frenemy's, Half-Naked Peeps! Lend me your ears!
Half-Nekkid Public Exposure
Monique Alexander Nude
Monika - Chat Noir