page views, sex and general confusion

I've been checking my page views lately for some reason.  I'm not sure how well this is tracking since for a while the blog was hosted solely on GoDaddy until blogger did something weird with how you published that seemed more work than I felt like mustering and moved things back to blogger.  One post, that granted was full of smutty goodness, has been far outpacing the others and I'm not quite sure why.  But in looking at the page counts and referring links in I was reminded of my sugasm linking days.  I'm not even sure if sugasm is still running.  I hope it is, that was how I got to plenty of other smutty goodness.  Anyhoo, today the top referrals in took me to a post from Rachel Kramer Bussell before she left the Village Voice about women and sexuality and how we were naughty naughty things for enjoying sex and not being chaste good girls who are trying to conquer the world. 

Watching Burlesque Again

It totally appeals to my campy vintage loving self.  Of course it's predictable but it's got great singing and it has Stanley Tucci which in most movies means a win right there.  I know I'm romanticizing the time period and what happened during it but I love it.  I love the clothes, the hair, the music, the way people flirted or didn't flirt as the case may be.  It all seems so safe and loving and anyone that knows me knows I want safe and loving more than anything else.  I don't want to have to worry about what may come, if there's comforting arms to fall into at the end of the night or if I have to compete with 70K other things to be a priority in his life.  Those aren't the men I choose though.  They hit on most of those things but there's always something I'm missing and I keep waiting on it but it doesn't turn out well.  Each time it makes me miss my dad a little more but as I don't want a hug from a zombie I can't get a hug and sit on the couch with dad while we watch cartoons.  That went all rambling didn't it?  I watch this movie every time it comes on like I haven't seen it lol.  Big voices, tiny outfits, people I adore, who can ask for more?  You should watch it if you haven't seen it, it's funny and lovely.