Prompt for the day: Is there such a thing as a “true” submissive? If this means there’s one way to be viewed as a true submissive then no because we end up in different places and presentations for everything in life and the same is true in submission. Some can only submit sexually, others only in serious relationships and still others may submit in a million different ways. I think the right partner can bring out a submissive side of nearly anyone because when we feel safe and nurtured we tend to let our guards down and want to please our partners. Each of my former partners has brought out a different side of my submission and I enjoy that but my honest submission met the needs of each dynamic.